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Never Let Up

Sep 16 2010 Published by under Women You Ought to Know

The follow post is part of the SITS Girls Back to Blogging Challege Day 4: A Blog Post about a Woman Who Inspires Me. The post originally appeared on this blog in May 2010.

I am an NBA fanatic. Anyone who knows me is aware of this. A couple of years ago the series of commercials ran during the playoffs (for a car company, I think) featuring a loquacious garage attendant that worked at one of the NBA arenas. He often held players “hostage” as they entered or exited the arena garage, yammering on and giving them his insight into how they could improve their games.

One of his mantras was “Never. Let. Up.”  Those words stuck with me because it was something I needed to hear at the time. It is a message we all need to hear from time to time.

I was reminded about the need to keep going despite challenges and disappointments when I checked the status update of a childhood friend on Facebook. Her post was: “Challenges are merely distractions meant to keep us from pursuing our destiny. Are you moving forward towards yours?”

Nicole Bengiveno/The New York Times

Maybe it is because I was already thinking about the need to stay determined to move forward despite that I happened upon the inspiring story of Dayniah Manderson, a 30-year-old immigrant from Jamaica. She was born with spinal muscular atrophy Type II, a degenerative neural disease which caused a severe curvature of her spine.

Dayniah was fortunate enough to find a doctor who became her advocate and friend. This led to her finding another doctor who was willing to do a cutting-edge surgery that greatly improved the quality of her life and life expectancy. Dayniah knows the disease will continue to progress. She doesn’t have an ‘ideal’ life, but she makes the very most of the life she has been given.

Dayniah pursued her dreams of starting a family, getting her masters degree, and becoming a teacher. Life is a struggle and she often deals with pain. Yet, she never allows this to deter her from living the life she has been given to the fullest. She is an inspiration to anyone who has a disability. But her story is encouraging to those of us who are able-bodied and full of excuses why we can’t achieve our goals.

Dayniah’s story is truly inspiring. Check it out here. What stories inspire you?

While reading a story about the attempted car bombing of Times Square this weekend I stumbled across was led to the story of Dayniah. The video clip here is just under ten minutes, but her inspiring story is well worth every minute.

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Jane Green on The Beach House and Promises to Keep

Jul 27 2010 Published by under Women You Ought to Know, Writer's Life

I adore Jane Green.

As a reader I’ve read several of her books. I love the characters that she brings to life and her amazing gift for writing dialogue. As a writer she is one of my Writing Heroines.

The last Jane Green book I read was the Beach House. It took me a minute to warm up to the style of this book which I felt was decidedly different from her books I’ve read in the past – Jemima J, Straight Talk, The Other Woman. The more I got to know each of the characters in this ensemble cast the more attached I became to them. Especially the main character – Nan – a spunky senior citizen who owns a beach house in Nantucket. She can no longer afford the home she’s owned for decades so she takes in boarders. As the summer goes on they slowly become a family.

I enjoyed the book very much. Today I ran across an interview Jane did on Good Morning America. Watch video of the interview about The Beach House and how the story and many of its characters are derived from events in her own life. Click here to read an excerpt of the book.

I stumbled across the video above while searching for the video for Jane’s recent appearance on GMA to promote her book Promises to Keep, which she referenced in a recent blog post on JaneGreen.com. Jane was interviewed by Robin Roberts – another remarkable woman who I greatly admire. Promises to Keep deals with the relationship between two sisters and how that relationship changes when one sister is diagnosed with cancer.

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Who are your favorite authors and what do you admire about them most?

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Never Let Up

May 02 2010 Published by under Women You Ought to Know

I am an NBA fanatic. Anyone who knows me is aware of this. A couple of years ago the series of commercials ran during the playoffs (for a car company, I think) featuring a loquacious garage attendant that worked at one of the NBA arenas. He often held players “hostage” as they entered or exited the arena garage, yammering on and giving them his insight into how they could improve their games.

One of his mantras was “Never. Let. Up.”  Those words stuck with me because it was something I needed to hear at the time. It is a message we all need to hear from time to time.

I was reminded about the need to keep going despite challenges and disappointments when I checked the status update of a childhood friend on Facebook. Her post was: “Challenges are merely distractions meant to keep us from pursuing our destiny. Are you moving forward towards yours?”

Nicole Bengiveno/The New York Times

Maybe it is because I was already thinking about the need to stay determined to move forward despite that I happened upon the inspiring story of Dayniah Manderson, a 30-year-old immigrant from Jamaica. She was born with spinal muscular atrophy Type II, a degenerative neural disease which caused a severe curvature of her spine.

Dayniah was fortunate enough to find a doctor who became her advocate and friend. This led to her finding another doctor who was willing to do a cutting-edge surgery that greatly improved the quality of her life and life expectancy. Dayniah knows the disease will continue to progress. She doesn’t have an ‘ideal’ life, but she makes the very most of the life she has been given.

Dayniah pursued her dreams of starting a family, getting her masters degree, and becoming a teacher. Life is a struggle and she often deals with pain. Yet, she never allows this to deter her from living the life she has been given to the fullest. She is an inspiration to anyone who has a disability. But her story is encouraging to those of us who are able-bodied and full of excuses why we can’t achieve our goals.

Dayniah’s story is truly inspiring. Check it out here. What stories inspire you?

While reading a story about the attempted car bombing of Times Square this weekend I stumbled across was led to the story of Dayniah. The video clip here is just under ten minutes, but her inspiring story is well worth every minute.

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The Write Life for Me

Aug 31 2008 Published by under The Writing Life, Women You Ought to Know

It’s amazing how much easier it is to do something when we feel that we aren’t doing it alone. I’m a grown up (most of the time) who knows exactly what she is supposed to do (most of the time). But, sometimes it just helps to have someone over your shoulder or by your side who gives you that little push, a bit of confidence, or the proverbial foot in the ass when you need it.

I am fortunate to have that. I am luckier still that the number of voices that support me in my endeavors has grown from a single voice to a chorus. I feel honored to know these women and to support them in their dreams and goals, as well. My chorus grew quite a bit when I joined a small writer’s group started and hand-picked by Shonell Bacon, the ever-positive Chicklitgurrl.

Another great writing group, also primarily women, helped me complete the writing of my non-fiction book. Endurance Writing is a Yahoo! Group that connects via Yahoo! instant messenger for group writing sessions. These sessions are timed and highly productive. They work well for me because I’m also slightly competitive. The thought of coming back after 45 minutes and saying, “Uh, zero word count” is completely unappealing and motivates me to motor on.

Whether you are a writer, artist, entrepreneur, stay-at-home mom, or career climber, it’s great to have people who can relate to your struggles; who’ll sympathize with you; and will give you a push when you need it.

Who has helped you move forward in your journey to achieve your dreams?

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Fabulous and Fifty

Aug 29 2008 Published by under Pop Culture, The Quest, Women You Ought to Know


A funny thing happened when I turned 21 – many moons ago – I realized that the word “old” is quite a relative term. When I was 16 I thought my friends’ siblings who were in their mid-20s were “old.” Being in my 20s myself at that point, I realized that 25 wasn’t so “old” after all.

After turning 25 I dreaded turning 30. The age at which I could no longer say that I was a twenty-something.

I hated turning 35 because I was officially ushered out of the “youth” bracket. You know how all marketing questionnaires seem to lump together people in the 18 – 34 age bracket, as if those at the top and bottom of that spectrum are, in fact, anything alike? Despite the fact that I felt it was absurd to lump those age ranges together, I still ‘mourned’ the fact that I was no longer a part of it.

But something funnier still happened on the other side of 35. I no longer looked at aging as something that should be dreaded or apologized for. The growing number of women in their 40s and beyond who were portrayed as strong, smart, and sexy certainly helped to boost this confidence. Women like Madonna and Angela Bassett – both of whom recently turned 50, as have Prince, Michael Jackson, and Kevin Bacon. Helen Mirren, Sally Field, and Diane Keaton remind us that evolution and growth and beauty don’t stop after 60 either. These women continue to dominate their fields and rewrite the script for the women who will follow their path.

It is great to see more and more women healthy, happy, and more fabulous than ever as they mature, grow in confidence, and feel no need to apologize for who they are or what they’ve accomplished.

Viva la Fabulous and Fifty. Here’s to 50 more.

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Opening Day for Sex and the City

The countdown is over. It is finally here. The day that SATC fans everywhere get to reconnect with their favorite fictional galpals – Carrie, Charlotte, Miranda, and Samantha – for a brand new adventure during the Sex and the City Movie.

I’d hoped to fly to Denver for this “momentous” event to see it with my galpal of 20+ years, Born Diva. For the season finale in February of 2004 I flew out to Denver and we threw a kick ass Series Finale party complete with Cosmos and metallic table confetti shaped like little cocktail glasses.

The previous year we visited New York City – both for the first time – and had a blast. While we did many things – going to see the Broadway play, Rent; shopping until we dropped; my first cab ride; getting a henna tattoo on Times Square at night; seeing the Naked Cowboy; and eating dinner at Tavern on the Green – going on the Sex and the City tour was one of our favorites.

While we won’t be able to reunite for the long-awaited reunion of our favorite fictional galpals, we will definitely be together in spirit.

If you’re going to see the movie – hopefully WITH your best friend – ENJOY.

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Thirteen Year Old Austistic Girl Finds Voice Through Computer

This story is simply amazing. A 13-year-old girl with severe autism that was unable to speak discovers her voice through a chance encounter with her father’s laptop. She sat and typed HELP HURT TEETH. Her parents couldn’t believe it. She couldn’t speak so they had no idea that she could spell. It turns out that this young lady is quite intelligent, eloquent, and locquacious.

She’s been a non-stop chatterbox – via computer – ever since. She wants to know when she’ll be able to go on a date. LOL. In fact, you can ask her questions about living with autism, etc. online and she will respond. See and hear the story here.

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Caridad Pineiro Featured on 30SomethingRebel.com

As you may already know, one of the projects I am currently working on is over at www.30SomethingRebel.com. The site features stories of women who’ve discovered happiness, success, or learned some really valuable lessons by following their own path.

This week’s featured women is romance author, Caridad Pineiro. She’s the author of several books including Sex and the South Beach Chicas and the newly released, The South Beach Chica’s Catch Their Man.

Hop on over to 30SomethingRebel.com to read my interview with Caridad. She talks about why a successful lawyer loves writing romance novels and shares her thoughts on the marketing of Latino and other ethnic authors. Caridad also shares some tips on getting your novel written in a year, and writing query letters that will get agents and publishers to beg you for more. You can preview some of her books below.

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Shon Bacon Featured on 30SomethingRebel.com

Sep 18 2007 Published by under Current Projects, Women You Ought to Know

Hop over to www.30SomethingRebel.com to meet author & editor, Shon Bacon, or get to know her a little better.

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Samara Leigh

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